Friday, October 21, 2011

Just Ask

Things happen, incidents happen all the time. Day in, day out, stuff happens, shit happens. Some is good, some is bad, some is average.

I wonder, for what I have seen, there are so many things that happened, people just don't wanna ask you, do they? They will just go to a third person who don't know exactly what happen, and the rest of it, they assume.

I'm not a fan of all these. If you really wanna know about something, whether you're just being concern, or you're just being a busy body like how we call it here, so be it, just ask the respective person. Not anyone other than that particular one.

It doesn't sound nice when it reaches that person okay. If you're not close, okay fine, maybe I can somehow try to understand it. But, if you and the third party have an equality kind of relationship with that person, isn't it etiquette only if you ask it yourself?

It doesn't look good and nice. Be more courteous. It's okay if you wanna ask the third party for some hints, but if you really wanna know what happen, it's best you go to that person, ask and get done with it, everyone will be happy. Each and everything there's something happen, you just gotta go through someone else. Is that a game that you enjoy playing? I don't.

Don't go on and on and on doing stupid things around me. I certainly do not enjoy those moments. It eventually gets frustrating. If you wanna maintain your supposingly good image, please refrain those kind of stuff. But, not like you have one good image anyway. You have tarnished it all before you even know it.

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