Thursday, December 6, 2012

2 Individuals

People, buddies, friends drift apart due to different reasons. Some are just distances, that may not be able to keep in close contacts. Mostly are due to the respective busy schedule.

There are some that had drifted apart due to other reasons apart from these few. They might be really close at some point, to be hanging out with each other every other day. Then, there comes a point due to some sensitivity they had broken the bond apart. After the incident, things will not be the same.

Mentality, thoughts, might also separate two individuals apart. If both have way different personalities that cannot reach a mutual understanding, then things will not be as easy. It is in fact two person's mutual interest, mutual understanding or mutual activities that can bring 2 people together.

Have you ever heard that your bond will be stronger if you both dislike the same person? Think about it.

In this case, no doubt things are not the same. It is definitely a personality and mutual interest issue. A clash of personality. A, is loud, loves attention, boys, wild, drinks. B, soft, hates attention, and things other than what is liked by A. So, what can bring these 2 together? In fact, nothing. It's not surprising that they have fallen apart.

Being around an attention seeker is indeed very taxing, especially if you are someone who feels really uneasy and awkward when the attention is there at you. It's either you feel awkward, or you will feel annoyed at the other party's weak personality. Maybe, it's time to go to the own separate path and it's time to search for someone who fits into the same category as you. Separation is somehow coming your way. If there is someone else who has similar personality, it is common to believe that these 2 will make a good friendship unless they are targeting the same thing, such as the attention they yearn so much for. If they get it equally, then it's gonna be great or else oops.

7 comments:

lpj said...

dats y v nid 2 grow n grow....till 1 day v r lyk d klouds....hangin n flotin free n no nid 4 anyting els or concern dis n dat....freeeeee. i lyk lyin down on d gras n watch klouds flot by le....den klos ma eyes n let d sun n briz kis me while i sleep :D

Panda said...

LOL .... i like to lie down at the beach and hear the sound of the waves ^^

lpj said...

waa... dat day i luk thru ur ol posts le... go fotos on d beach.... dat 1 many yrs ago hor.... v slim n priti wor ;)

Panda said...

Told u to trust me that I'm not fat. Which beach? The last beach I went was Krabi haha I think 2010.

lpj said...

is lankawi n pd lor

Panda said...

Langkawi Wah that's I think 2009 n pd even earlier maybe 2007 or 08 lolz

Panda said...

Langkawi Wah that's I think 2009 n pd even earlier maybe 2007 or 08 lolz