Friday, December 6, 2013

Do the right thing

More and more unhappy people are expanding, and I have come to know about their existence. My close friends are usually single, and I have a few who have left our single club. Ah sad, right? Haha.

I know a few who had been out of the single club. We can see how wrong decision affect your life so much. We are able to see so many situations in which people we have cross path with caught with the wrong partner. I'm not referring to people whom have committed themselves with the partner, but those who had legally married. You can see for some, they are just the wrong fit. Others, you see that the other person is not even into them. What does it show? For a normal sensible person, you leave. Not all are sensible or rational enough. They become illogical when it is related to emotions. They go berserk. Only be with the people who wanna be with you, which makes it mutual, right? Excuses? Reasoning? It's pointless really, because if someone wants to be, it will be. It's whether he or she wants it. It's rather sad that people are willing to sacrifice whatever they have for that other person just because they just cannot be along. They become dependent to that other person for whatever reason there are.

When you get into a relationship, there are bound to have things change, for instance, your lifestyle, your habits and stuff like that. Change is common. But, you need to like what you have become with this person. If you are feeling all so stressed up, burden, and etc, it is a clear indication that it's time to bid farewell. Why suffocate yourself when you can be free as a bird. Why torture yourself being jealous when all these are not necessary in your life. All your energy are being wasted feeling that way, going through the days like that. Worth it? Also, if it's not making the best out of you from it, really, why are you even there? A lot of people sometimes have different perceptions, that doing certain things will make the other person unhappy. In the end of the day, it's you that you need to please. A very important question, look yourself in the mirror and ask if you are happy with the person you see in the mirror when you are with that particular person.

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