Monday, April 29, 2013

Drinking

Maybe, there's an understanding gap here that I don't quite get it.

Once, there was a guy and a girl who met in a club. That means that both are drinkers. For me, that is perfectly normal to drink, whether you are a girl or a guy. That's absolutely acceptable as long as you know your boundaries and don't go over your limits.

Here's the thing, you know each other from a club. But, when you got closer, you have come to a point to go further into the relationship, it suddenly became an issue. What issue? How can that be an issue? Girl does not allow the guy to go drinking.

It makes no sense. You knew him from a club. Yet, after you got together, you prohibit him from going. That's not realistic and to me, that is just purely ridiculous. How can you change someone's lifestyle just because you don't like it, and just because you don't agree to it. Perhaps, girl is afraid of the guy cheating if he goes to a club?

I have no freaking idea. But, if a guy intends to cheat, he will cheat somehow despite how are you trying to stop him. He will, without a doubt. He has been living like how he has been throughout his life. When you come into the picture, you stopped him. Wow, what a sacrifice. A major one.

Girl or guy alike, it works the same way. It's not like they go and drink til they get wasted or anything like that. If you are behaving as such, how can you expect the other to be happy being with you? They are not 18, where they don't even know how to control themselves.

This means that, you are not even trusting them. Therefore, what's the point of being together without a trust? Tell me, enlighten me if I am lacking of some knowledge here.

I have seen many like that. They have been drinking all their life and they are expected to stop. OR, they knew each other from a club, and when they got together, they are not allowed to drink. Drinking is needed for certain people to release the pressure they have from their daily life and that does not make them an alcoholic. It makes them sane, at least they have something to de-stress. I am sure even one pint of beer can already de-stress them.

Sunday, April 28, 2013

G-Dragon (G-드래곤) – Missing You Ft. Kim Yuna of Jaurim Lyrics


This is a song by GD feat Kim Yuna of Jaurim. I love this song so much :D

Yeah (maybe I’m missing you)
아무 생각 없이 평소와 같이 보통 사람들과 만나 웃고 말하지
밤이 되면 TV가 내 유일한 친구고
아침해가 떠오르면은 그제서야 잠이 들죠
너무 초라해 나 널 많이 좋아했나봐
네가 떠난 후 파란 하늘 내 눈엔 노랗게만 보여
그댄 어디서 아파해요 나 여기 있어
아님 혹시 다른 사람과 다른 사랑하니 보고싶어 my baby
내 맘은 이리 울적한데 말할 사람이 없다
나도 가끔 활짝 웃고 싶은데 곁엔 아무도 없다
Maybe i’m missing you oh oh
Maybe i’m missing you oh oh
Maybe i’m missing you oh oh
Maybe i’m missing you
그땐 그랬지 우리사인 투명하고 깨끗했지
처음에는 애틋했지 다들 그래 알면서 왜 그랬지
(but) 갈수록 유리 깨지듯 손에 낀 반지가 빛 바래지듯
날카로운 칼에 베이듯 속박이란 사슬에 목이 죄이듯
늘 좋을 줄 만 알았던 너와의 기억도
풀리지 않던 오해 및 상처만 남아 싫어도
헤어져란 말은 끝까지 참았어야만 했는데
(그래도) 싸우고 다투던 그때가 지금보단 나슬텐데
내 맘은 이리 울적한데 말할 사람이 없다
나도 가끔 활짝 웃고 싶은데 곁엔 아무도 없다
Maybe i’m missing you oh oh
Maybe i’m missing you oh oh
Maybe i’m missing you oh oh
Maybe i’m missing you
나는 아직도 매일 눈을 뜨면 네가 옆에 있는 것만 같아
우리 함께했던 많은 시간들 되돌릴 순 없나 아-아-아-
내 맘은 이리 울적한데 말할 사람이 없다
나도 가끔 활짝 웃고 싶은데 곁엔 아무도 없다 아-아-아-아-
내 맘은 이리 울적한데 말할 사람이 없다
나도 가끔 활짝 웃고 싶은데 곁엔 아무도 없다
Maybe i’m missing you oh oh
Maybe i’m missing you oh oh
Maybe i’m missing you oh oh
Maybe i’m missing you

Romanization
Yeah (maybe I’m missing you)
amu saenggak eobsi pyeongsowa gati
botong saramdeulgwa manna utgo malhaji
bami dwemyeon TV-ga nae yuilhan chingugo
achimhaega ddeo-oreumyeoneun geujeseoya jami deuljyo
neomu chorahae na neol manhi johahaetnabwa
nega ddeonan hu paran haneul
nae nunen norahgeman boyeo
geudaen eodiseo apahaeyo na yeogi isseo
anim hoksi dareun saramgwa dareun
saranghani bogosipeo my baby
nae mameun iri uljeokhande
malhal sarami eobtda
nado gakkeum hwaljjak utgo sipeunde
gyeoten amudo eobtda
Maybe i’m missing you oh oh
Maybe i’m missing you oh oh
Maybe i’m missing you oh oh
Maybe i’m missing you
geuddaen geuraetji
urisain tumyeonghago ggaekkeuthaetji
cheoeumeneun aeteuthaetji dadeul
geurae almyeonseo wae geuraetji
(but) galsurok yuri ggaejideut
sone ggin banjiga bit baraejideut
nalkaroun kare beideut sokbagiran
saseure mogi jweideut
neul joheul jul man aratdeon neowaui gieokdo
pulliji anhdeon ohae mit
sangcheoman nama sirheodo
he-eojyeoran mareun ggeutkkaji
chamasseoyaman haetneunde
(geuraedo) ssaugo datudeon
geuddaega jigeumbodan naeultende
nae mameun iri uljeokhande
malhal sarami eobtda
nado gakkeum hwaljjak utgo sipeunde
gyeoten amudo eobtda
Maybe i’m missing you oh oh
Maybe i’m missing you oh oh
Maybe i’m missing you oh oh
Maybe i’m missing you
naneun ajikdo maeil nuneul ddeumyeon
nega yeope itneun geotman gata
uri hamkkehaetdeon manheun sigandeul
dwedollil sun eobtna a-a-a-
nae mameun iri uljeokhande
malhal sarami eobtda
nado gakkeum hwaljjak utgo sipeunde
gyeoten amudo eobtda a-a-a-a-
nae mameun iri uljeokhande
malhal sarami eobtda
nado gakkeum hwaljjak utgo sipeunde
gyeoten amudo eobtda
Maybe i’m missing you oh oh
Maybe i’m missing you oh oh
Maybe i’m missing you oh oh
Maybe i’m missing you

English Translation
Yeah (maybe I’m missing you)
Without any thoughts, just like any other day,
I met up with people and talked and laughed
When night comes, the TV is my only friend
When the morning sun rises, then I finally fall asleep
It’s so pathetic, I guess I liked you a lot
After you left, the blue sky
looks yellow in my eyes
Are you hurting somewhere? I’m right here
Or are you in a new relationship
with someone new? I miss you my baby
My heart wants to cry
but I have no one to talk to
Sometimes, I want to smile widely
but I have no one by my side
Maybe I’m missing you oh oh
Maybe I’m missing you oh oh
Maybe I’m missing you oh oh
Maybe I’m missing you
Back then
we were clear and clean
In the beginning, we were so affectionate
And I know everyone’s like this but why was I like this?
(But) As time passed, it was like glass shattering,
like the ring on my finger fading
Like being cut by a sharp knife, like being suffocated
by a chain called restraint
Memories of you and I, I thought were always good
Only misunderstandings that weren’t cleared up
and scars remained and I hated it
I knew I should have held in the words
“let’s break up” till the end but
(Because still) The days we used to fight and argue
are way better than now
My heart wants to cry
but I have no one to talk to
Sometimes, I want to smile widely
but I have no one by my side
Maybe I’m missing you oh oh
Maybe I’m missing you oh oh
Maybe I’m missing you oh oh
Maybe I’m missing you
Every day when I open my eyes,
it still feels like you’re next to me
Can’t I turn things back to
when we were together?
My heart wants to cry
but I have no one to talk to
Sometimes, I want to smile widely
but I have no one by my side
My heart wants to cry
but I have no one to talk to
Sometimes, I want to smile widely
but I have no one by my side
Maybe I’m missing you oh oh
Maybe I’m missing you oh oh
Maybe I’m missing you oh oh
Maybe I’m missing you

Saturday, April 27, 2013

Friends?

This became a topic of discussion the other day. In which situation, will a guy be able to be friends with the ex-gf, and in which situation will the guy not be able to be friends with her?

Well, we all have that same thoughts. Things wouldn't be so bad if he is the one that initiates the break up. He wouldn't say anything after that. But, if the situation is turned around, she was the one that initiates it, that's when things turn sour.

Let's face it, things don't always go the way we want to. Having said that, that doesn't mean you need to be all bitter with vengeance. You don't have to. If the guy is a chauvinist guy, we can just forget about what has been mentioned earlier because there's no way he's gonna let it slip. Probably, he doesn't wanna see you, talk to you and have anything to do with you anymore, ever. You disappear in this world has nothing to do with him anymore. That's a fact.

Sometimes, I really do look up to guys who can let it go, without feeling all bitter. If he's the one that has been very dominant all along, the likelihood of him going easy on you is equivalent to non-existent.

Of course, not all are like that. But, the probability of them being like that especially when he has that really high ego in him, and being a chauvinist is rather high. Well. If only, anyone can prove me wrong.

Friday, April 26, 2013

The Bread Casing

Thank you for this bread casing. I'm always hungry now because of the smell. To the one that gave me, thank you :)

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

That 3rd Person

A relationship is between two individuals. No matter what happens there, it is entirely that two individuals' issues and has absolutely nothing to do with a third party unless that party gets involved between them. That is a completely different issue all together.

So, whether that the relationship is controlling, it is neglected, it is whatever it is, I don't think it is right and logical for a third party to say much especially when you do not know a single thing. Passing derogatory remarks calling the person either naive or stupid is beyond limits.

It's best that we as third parties keep quiet and not say a single thing unless that person comes to you, tells you the exact situation and ask your opinion. That's different. You are requested to voice out.

The problem with people is that they speak too soon, they speak too wrong, and I guess the worst of all is, the fact that they spoke. They should just kept the mouth shut and say nothing. They are not the ones involved, why being such a nosy person. It's not like without passing remarks as such you will not be able to breathe or eat. You live the same way as you have always been. Furthermore, you are just another person, and not even someone close to them.

Becareful of people like that. They stay single, they, whether intentional or not, love passing remarks that trigger the peacefulness. Maybe, they are just sadists that they love seeing others breaking up. I don't know. Hmm. Thank God I am not close to anyone like that. Phew.

Monday, April 22, 2013

My 3 Weeks Battle

This has been my most critical condition of falling sick. For the past 3 weeks, I have fallen sick, in and out of clinic.

The first week was a not-so-serious viral fever which I recovered the next day. I don't feel so miserable, I can still walk and still crap. That is the sign I am okay.

Second week, was when I had food poisoning, which leads to the pain of my stomach became unbearable. That, after medication, I was okay the next day.

The third week, which was just last week, was again viral fever. Maybe, I did not fully recover from the first week. Afterall, it's virus, not something that medication can kill. The fever was bad this time, the bodyache was serious, so bad I could not walk in a pace of a grandfather. I was even slower than that and I can only walk very very short distance. Then, the giddyness came, I felt so dizzy, which triggered nausea which leads to throwing up. I felt so lethargic, and of course really really miserable. The giddy that I got was so critical that I could not stand up to walk to my room from downstairs. That's how bad it was.

Now that I am okay, I felt so much more relief, more than ever. The feeling of miserable can be very depressing.

Sunday, April 21, 2013

한국: Day 4 Part 3

Let's take a stroll along the palace. Gyeongbokgyung Palace.
This is already the inner part of it. It's called Hyangwonjeong Pavilion in which is a two-story hexagonal pavilion built around 1873. The bridge that connects Hyangwonjeong and the palace grounds is called Chwihyanggyo Bridge.

Oh Ahjussi is so damn stylish haha

Then, here comes Geoncheonggung. You may think that the King had resided in the main palace but this was the place he resided with his queen, Empress Myeongseong.

That's us haha

And this, is Jibokjae(Hall of collecting Jades) and Vicinity. These buildings were used as library and reception halls to receive foreign envoys. Parujeong is an octagonal 2 story pavillion. These buildings have exotic looks as they have Chinese characteristics and are connected by interior corridors.

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

13GE on May 5th

It is exactly 19 days from now before the 13GE approaches.

If you do not know yet, the election date has been fixed on May 5th, 2013 which falls on a Sunday.

I hope those who are eligible had already registered by now. Otherwise, you will need to wait for the next election to come. Before that day arrives, ensure that you know who you are voting for.

Study the pros and cons. You choose who to govern the country. Please ensure that nobody influence your decision. Just because your friends are voting for particular party, it doesn't mean you have to do the same. Just, don't be influenced. Be sure who you are voting for, and stick to that. You have every right to choose who you want to vote. It doesn't matter who others vote for as long as you have done your part as a citizen of Malaysia. You know what's best for you, so do the right thing

Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Cheng Beng

Pure Brightness Festival or Clear Bright Festival, Ancestors Day or Tomb Sweeping Day was on last Thursday. Chinese families gather together to visit the graveyard of the deceased for prayers with offerings.

When I was young, it has always been called as Cheng Beng. Only when I grew up, knew more Chinese, only I found out that it's actually called Cheng Ming or something like that. They didn't know what I was referring to in fact. Ahh I'm sad like that.

I guess, it's still one of the main festivals for Chinese families though in Singapore and Malaysia, a public holiday is not observed.


This is similar to Chuseok Day in South Korea which falls in Autumn instead. They are more diversified with the celebration. This has something to do with harvesting as well. They celebrate the good harvest and if there is no good harvest that year, they may not celebrate. They will also visit their ancestors at their hometown. They celebrate with big feast, like the traditional Korean food, rice wine, folk games and etc. Hence, the eldest daughter-in-law is the most unlucky one.

Monday, April 8, 2013

Margaret Thatcher passed away at 87

It was a shocking news, that Margaret Thatcher had passed away at age 87 following a stroke.

It's indeed a great loss to the world. She is known as the Iron Lady as she leads Britain for a long 11 years from 1979-1990.

She was the first female prime minister and she had transformed Britain to how it is today. A great leader, an influential one.

She had become frail over the years, and her health condition worsened. Now that she's gone, let us all hope that she's at a better place now, get freed from all the sufferings she has to endure here.

The Hair Bun

Just earlier today, I saw this bun.

I used to be really dependent on this on my early years of my working life for a couple of months. I was then used to it, so I've never seen that as "weird" nor "strange." I felt that way in the beginning, but after adapting to it, it seems okay since that I was solely dependent on it, for that few months.After I was sent over to the grooming class, we were all prohibited in using this to bun our hair up. Just hair tie is allowed, nothing more.

I didn't understand why would we be prohibited from using this, as that was convenient, I thought. Now that I look back on those who use this (mostly service line), it looks really weird. Honestly, it doesn't look professional. Yes, it does look tidy and neat, but does it look professional considering the industry? It actually doesn't bring out the professionalism. I guess the decision to stop the usage is a right thing to do. Also, it doesn't add on the years of your actual age. :DThank God, my work does not require me to do stuff like that anymore. I did not know how I endure things like that before. It was really awesome. An experience I must say that grooming then MATTERS, a lot. Failing to adhere to that, will be sent to the locker to re-groom yourself. That's how it works.

Thursday, April 4, 2013

A,B & C

I'm not sure if this is okay, or that it feels weird.

What if A(guy) and B(girl) are friends, and B has a close friend C(girl). B introduced them. Not as in formally introduce them to get together, but merely B hangs out with them frequently. Why go twice when you can go one.

There comes one fine day when A and B had stopped talking. It's not through a misunderstanding but rather B cannot tolerate A's attitude anymore. A then asked C to go out, pestering C to hang out and especially on trips together.

Now, does it make sense? Hmm. It's very interesting though. When A can't get hold of B anymore, he turns to C? I feel this is a disrespect and not sure what is he up to. He may mean well with good intentions. I can foresee that the amazing long years they know each other can practically go down the drain. I really don't think this is right.

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

My Creeper

I recently bought this creeper online and this has got to be one of my fave pair of shoes, except the size does not fit me properly. It's a little too big, so I can't run with it. I can only walk awkwardly. Damn. If anyone has suggestion of amending it til the size fits me will be awesome.

It is not Lego, or Ronald McDonald's shoes alright. It's called creeper. =.=

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Oh no!

For the first time this year, I fell sick last Saturday. It was just minor sickness, just sore throat and a nose block. I wasn't a fool for April. I indeed fell sick.

On Sunday, I was down with the additional fever with cough. Despite being rested, it got worse on Monday morning. My body aches like hell. That was D sign to tell me I have officially fallen sick. Of course, being in situation like that, you will say, bravo can take MC. But, I'm stubborn like that. I will not. haha. My colleagues kept pestering me to go to the clinic. I guess my face told them a thousand words.

I waited til the end of the day to see the doctor. It's a viral fever/flu that was told by the doctor. Just not sure which one is it. I think it's the season because when I was in the clinic waiting for my turn, the medications that were prescribed to most patients there were this sort.

Tadaa ... my medication for the next few days