This became a topic of discussion the other day. In which situation, will a guy be able to be friends with the ex-gf, and in which situation will the guy not be able to be friends with her?
Well, we all have that same thoughts. Things wouldn't be so bad if he is the one that initiates the break up. He wouldn't say anything after that. But, if the situation is turned around, she was the one that initiates it, that's when things turn sour.
Let's face it, things don't always go the way we want to. Having said that, that doesn't mean you need to be all bitter with vengeance. You don't have to. If the guy is a chauvinist guy, we can just forget about what has been mentioned earlier because there's no way he's gonna let it slip. Probably, he doesn't wanna see you, talk to you and have anything to do with you anymore, ever. You disappear in this world has nothing to do with him anymore. That's a fact.
Sometimes, I really do look up to guys who can let it go, without feeling all bitter. If he's the one that has been very dominant all along, the likelihood of him going easy on you is equivalent to non-existent.
Of course, not all are like that. But, the probability of them being like that especially when he has that really high ego in him, and being a chauvinist is rather high. Well. If only, anyone can prove me wrong.