Friday, November 29, 2013

The truth revealed

Sometimes, you wouldn't know a person until you get really close to them. They can put up with any kind of show in front, and to think that they are the person they portrayed themselves to be was indeed some kind of gimmick.

I know it's a crazy world out there but sometimes you just got into this situation off guard. The person who you thought was so open, understanding, awesome was just at a surface level. Then, you found out, everything was a lie. They made you believe as such.

Then, as days passed, you gradually found out what they really are, who they really are. The open, understanding, and awesome person was never ever there. The person is there out in the world elsewhere, definitely not the person you were interacting with all the while. I guess it's not about being fake in the beginning, it was all an act. It turned out to be disgusting, narrow minded and out of the mind.

I always believe that you get to know someone when they are angry and how can they compose themselves. When they can't, they let everything go, it's the time you get to read them. That is their true self. Never doubt that. I'm sorry I was this and that, I was angry. It's too late, yo! Those who always remain calm and cool, is when you know their EQ is at a certain level. haha.

Then, you saw this person doing this with others, the same old way, that act once again. It's all just a cycle. It suddenly felt disgusting. It never felt back then. When the truth is out, it always feel disgusting. Sometimes, you just don't know it's such a bad luck to be crossing path with people as such, or that you are lucky enough to meet with this kinda people that you get to learn how our human race really is. Either one, you choose. I think I rather choose that I am lucky. It's not all bad, we learn from mistakes, to learn to analyze people more. :D

Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Full Moon

Last 2 Sundays, we attended Lober's daughter's full moon dinner. Those who know me well enough know that I don't simply go to just anyone's full moon, or wedding dinner. I pick. This is the only one I have attended this year so far. Credits to SP

Monday, November 25, 2013

The Fats Factor

I have come to realize that many people are complaining about having back aches and all. They do it when it's convenient, to the point that I don't even know if I should believe them. Honestly, I don't. I highly doubt about it.

It's not so much about having back aches, but more like, it's their weight that has been influencing it. See, it's totally fine that you are on a heavier side and exercise. It's really not okay if you don't exercise, regardless of your weight. That person does not. Complaining about back pain every other time. People get bored with it.

You may be the thinnest person, but you can be the ones with the most percentage of body fats. So, don't question someone when you see a thin person working out. It's not about losing weight, it's about living a healthier life. You can be on a heavier side, and that does not mean that you are the unhealthiest of the lot. It's not always the case. There are so many factors, like the bone factor, the lifestyle and etc.

It's actually more dangerous for a thinner person to go binge eating because there are no changes on your body, you feel there is nothing to worry about. In fact, you should worry more because there's no changes despite you eating too much. Don't be too cocky just because you don't gain weight. You never know what's happening inside. It's them that take things for granted, you feel you can eat whatever you want because you don't gain weight? You're so wrong. It's the same, whether you're bigger or smaller, you need to watch what you eat.

I see a lady who eats McD every single day, and she's so damn freaking thin. That does not really mean that she has no weight issue. Who knows all the fats are hidden somewhere, that it does not interpret visually. It's really hazardous.

Thursday, November 21, 2013

Unconventional Halloween

This year's Halloween has got to be the most unconventional way of celebrating. Seeing these pictures don't mean really that I love kids. My preference of kids around me remains, that I don't. It's not something I must hide or I need to. It's a well known fact I don't get along with them and it's for certain, I don't try to either.

The red and the black shirt boy is the siblings. They are Malaysian Japanese mixed.

Yeah, one and only adult group :(

with Sinsei this time and turned out blur

That's with Tomoko. Damn, she's leaving soon :(

Hahaa .... fine~
My prop of the night haha.... this Jap kid. Still, doesn't mean we get along. haha.

That's all for Halloween's, it was a really really laidback mini gathering we had. Nothing extravaganza or different. Well, this is different, it was a very peaceful and quiet evening, except with the noisy kids.

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

The fight against cellulite

I had just finished a short video about cellulite. I know women had been battling with cellulite for decades now. There are so many stuff people had heard about cellulite and we do not know which is true and which is not. You see, most you have heard from are from those beauty centers, which their main concern is to get you to give them business. It just means that they want you to think that if you don't do anything about it, like some don't know God knows what kind of therapy, then you will forever and permanently diagnosed with cellulite.

We all know that there are all myths and there are no scientific proof of what these beauty centers claimed. According to the video, those cellulite is more of a muscle fiber issue, rather than skin or fats issue. Don't know how true but it's better to believe so.

Therefore, all the beauty centers, creams, gyms, and etc are not going to work. In fact, it makes the situation worse. Hence, what he suggested was to exercise because the affected area are lacking of stimulation. Only certain times of exercise. It's not carrying weights, doing some gymnastics stunts or things like that, but rather the basic exercise you can find on the net.

He drew it on the video itself a few exercise in which I have done it before in dance class. Just 3 times a week and 20 mins is sufficient.

Monday, November 18, 2013

The Libran's Birthday Part 4

This is the 4th part and also the last part in my birthday celebration. Beloved SP brought me to this place in Subang. You know how great my senses are especially in that area, I am completely clueless.

We had Spanish meal. You may not be very convinced that it tasted great. But, do not be sure that it's like what it seems like.

That's what SP had, and it was definitely great

Mine, and I know that the taste of it remains questionable by looking at this picture. But, I can assure that it was heavenly

Then, I had brownies, with the small birthday candle haha

That's the Libran

Of course, together with SP. Yeah just the two of us hehe.

That's enough for the birthday celebrations. I had a few more celebrations after that but, there are no pictures. So, the birthday celebration officially ends on this entry.

Friday, November 15, 2013

Acting all cute-sy

At times, I just don't know if I should pity some people, or I should laugh at them. The fact that they think people are so in love with them just because they act all "cutesy."

Oh just because they feel they are the cute one, they think they can take advantage of people's kindness and use them to get free stuff, without having the need to use a single cent. Their intention? Purely to use these people. Lead them on, and on and on. That's what they are good at.

People change, and they will eventually realize that these hopeless and tragic species are just purely disastrous. "Oh this guy likes me." "That guy likes me." So, we ask? Is there really nothing more to life than that? It's all covered under the thick make-up anyway. I wish people like that get the karma running after them soon. I just cannot withstand seeing people using others in this way. It's really atrocious. It's so loathsome to the human race. Man~

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

The Libran's Birthday Part 3

Then, there comes the next celebration.

It's a perfect Wednesday awaited me. First, was coffee in Starbucks. It was a very pleasant tea time before we head to our dance session. Wednesday is always a good day.

The bar~ Alcohol there was tempting.

That's us. We dined in Zander in Publika. It was a very relaxing night but if ask to review the restaurant, I am not impressed with it. It was average, nothing really stands out. The service maybe should train the staff on where professionalism lies and where the line is of being overly friendly? It will be a great idea.

2 days later, we headed over to Publika again. That was my third time there for that week.

Haha, he treated Korean dinner yay! And also the beer. Weeeee ^^

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Deprived of Clothes or Cheapo?

Recently, I came across a picture of a girl in Instagram. I don't have any Instagram account, yeah being outdated or not, it doesn't really matter, but someone sent that picture to me.

The moment I saw the picture, I was so disgusted and grossed out. A picture of a girl with her skimpy inner wear, putting up on a public place like Instagram. Wow, really? I'm not sure what she's trying to show the world, like how beauti-fool her ass is? Nobody will be attracted. Instead, people will look lowly on people like you.

It's nothing to do with me absolutely. But, it has something to do with me when girls like that that contribute to the society where the reputation of girls gets lower and lower. That the mindset of people will eventually start to think that we are here, born to please a certain species called, the guys, which is untrue. It makes me mad.

Furthermore, being born in this society and culture, with a religious background, you should know how to act decently. Ooh did I mention that this thing has a bf too. God, what's happening to the world.

So, when losers and desperados start disturbing girls like her, they will then start to whine and rant as well as start complaining why guys love to disturb her. I'm sure of that. Guess what? You asked for it. If you don't trigger a certain something, things won't happen. There's a reason behind everything that happens. Like, cheapo, seriously? Deprived of clothes or just plan cheap? It is definitely the latter. What a shame you bring on to your family. I pity them.

Monday, November 11, 2013

The Libran's Birthday Part 2

We continued our time talking, chilling out, relaxing for a beautiful evening like that. No pressure, not too chaos, and things were just great. It may not be a very eventful day, but it was very meaningful.

Ah~ We are wiser now haha

Tadaaa ... lol

Finally, the three of us together in one hehe

We hopped into Social after that for second round

Then, we called it a night.

Saturday, November 9, 2013

Who is it for?

There has been a viral on Facebook on "marriage is not for me." At some point of your life, you will need to face this. It's okay if you do not want to get married, or it's not time yet or any other reasons which I can't think of now.

But, it's a new insight on marriage. You get married for your partner, it's because you want your spouse to be happy, to see him/her smile, to bring laughter to that person, and what you can give to him or her. It's about making the other person happy.

It makes me realize how many people got married for the wrong reason if it's based on this reason. At the same time, I feel that you need to take into consideration what do you want. I know this may sound selfish, but humans are selfish, we can't be Saints. It's great if you wanna please your partner, but I feel there should only be a certain extent and you don't always have to appease everyone. Sometimes, it's not that both parties wanna get married, but the peer pressure, the family pressure that ends up both getting married at the wrong time. You can't be all understanding and open and still does things for your partner if they are having affairs, right?

Regardless, this is an over-rated commitment and it's creepy. There are people who told me before that they wanna get married at a certain age. That's not willingness. That's called age limitation and because time waits for no one, they accelerate of finding a partner and settle for the second best when the time comes. Sometimes, these people don't even feel they wanna get married. It's more like because one party wants it, they adhere to it. When asked how do they feel about it? Their answer? "I don't feel anything." That must be a very happy family after they get married. It's a sign that you are not into your partner.

This is about 2 families being united as one. You cannot ignore or neglect your partner, nor yourself. It can't be all about them, nor it can't be all about yourself. It's just like compromise.

Thursday, November 7, 2013

The Libran's Birthday Part 1

I celebrated my birthday 2 months ago and this has got to be the quietest birthday celebration. No more partying like it used to be. It's not that I have aged, but I prefer a much calmer celebration. We have all done that many many years ago and those kind of celebration had become boring.

The office brought me this cake. So nice of them to be spelling my name correctly. I am very bothered by how people spell my name. The worst of all is when it is spelt wrongly by my own teachers for 13 long years, again and again.

Dede suggested that we celebrate it at Ante, a place famous for pork haha. I've never known this place. It was a very great ambiance to dine in.

Look at the food! Yums

Just when Kakak arrived. Surprisingly, he was on-time. Thought of asking him to settle the bill if he arrives late. The wine was very smooth.

Woolala~ all the porks in the world :D

Friday, November 1, 2013

Konichiwa Day 6 Part 2

Yeah, all good things have to come to an end. This will be no exception. My holiday is over. It means, I gotta work for another half a year without any leaves. Oh god~

We are all aware of Japan and the shopping streets with the overwhelming fashion trends. This is the place. Shibuya, Harajuku and Shinjuku. Choose one. hehe.

You may not see many guys stuff in KL, but it's different here in Japan. The weather is as good as ever. It's windy, it's chilly and there's nothing like in KL. I mean, it's winter. C'mon. haha.

We are back at the airport, it means sayonara Japan. Boo~