Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Manipulation and HAPPY HALLOWEEN

Only God knows how long I have not bought any magazines, surprisingly I did the other day - reason being as a means to de-stress. It's a good tool I would say. So, this article caught my attention - BIG TIME.

It was about manipulation and it's some big issue these days. Let's list some of them out here

1.DENIAL
Refuses to admit he's done something wrong, "playing innocent" and wants you to feel that your accusations about his behaviour ae unfounded and unjustified.
E.g.
A: Stop being so lame
B: No lorr .. I am not lame

2. SELECTIVE INATTENTION
He "plays dumb." Ignores your warnings, pleas and wishes
E.g.
A: Do not be late
B: Since when am I late

LYING
Works best if you are good at it
E.g
A: What's your reason for not liking?
B: I don't know, it's just the feeling ---- FAIL

Just 3 of the 12 that they wrote and examples of course are given by yours truly.

Btw, it's already the 1st of November here but hey, it's still 31st October for the time that I am using for blogger. Thus ...

HAPPY HALLOWEEN'S DAY people ... enjoy and have fun, party hard yea because .... I can't :( One year Halloween had passed that I remembered we had a student bar that night, with people dressing up for the night, some extraordinary food on the pool table, drink all the way, Mr Galih was spending hours in his room with his make-up, and later followed by a little photoshoot session, and we stole Uncle's bed to sleep lolz. Many people got wasted that night hehe. It was this particular day that some retard guy came over knocking at Winnie's room and all of us pretended nobody is in the room hehe. Jove did a very impressive performance. The first time that my roomie drank and got drunk lolz. Some awesome drinking, some great parties, good companies and everything was fabulous. Halloween during 2004 was even better, got to see both side of the world - the devils and the angels. More people dressed up and I just love the bunny, so cute with one girl attacking some guy thereafter haha. There's also people dressing up as cops HAHA. The funniest part was ... everyone were still in the room, taking their own sweet time, just getting up or still asleep when it was already 10pm and the fire alarm ran off, everyone had no choice but to wake up and evacuate the building and .. after everything was cleared out, everyone just started partying, the night was really young. Miss those days!!!

4 comments:

mr jp said...

happy halloween chou chou !

i spending it at home too. nevermind, teman you ^___^

The Pondering Introvert said...

but chou chou, i spent at work lolz =.= ehe happy halloween chou chou

Iwan said...

some ppl are damn too good at manipulating others..

adik.. happy haloween eh..

The Pondering Introvert said...

hehe bang happy halloween

yesh that's so true people are so damn good at manipulating others, maybe they realize and maybe they dont, and not everyone can be manipulated, things dont always go their way and they must understand it -_-