The happiness

I'm off for the next 3 days, ask me out ask me out!!

I have been observing people these couple of days lately. Well, not these couple of days, but all along I do of course and having conversation with people made me realized more about it.

What is the foundation of being happy. How do you define happiness. Is happiness that easy to be fulfilled. Does it come from other people. Or that your happiness can be achieved from your inner-self. Think. Contemplate. Be thoughtful. Perhaps, it's about satisfaction and it is a fact that people are never satisfied with what they have and they are always wanting more once a particular so-called dream or target is achieved. Probably one should expect less things in life, and wouldn't be so worked out chasing that dream. However again, we need to have dreams in life lolz.

Frankly speaking, from a personal point of view, happiness or felicity does not have anything to do with others, but your inner-self. True happiness only lies within you, and only you, without wasting time and effort to search for happiness with the involvement externally. Reach out and share. It is also an inner state of your own well being.

For some reasons, certain people are being happy when others like them. I'm not sure how to put it, perhaps they are lack of assurance, they NEED love. I guess they are people who really cares about how people think of them. They need people to like them. Once people dislike them, they will do anything to make that person like them, or at least convince, try to. Is that what happiness is all about people? Reflect. If that is how you define happiness, I shall tell you, YOU HAVE NO LIFE.

This is principles. One shouldn't be overly concern on why people dislike you, why people hate you, and so on. One should just shove it and thrust it away, for, it's not the end of the world. Why bother so much. Most important ... you know what you are doing, and as long as you are happy, then why bother. Hold to your own beliefs, and never change. At times, one shouldn't care too much on people's perception on your goodself, rather, as long as you don't go against your conscious, it will be cool. The substance of this all is ... it all boils down to popularity and fame. If you have that in mind, and if what you want outta life is to be famous and popular among people, when you don't need to be, then I guess ... I shall say ... Bless You!

Don't give a dang about what people has to say. In the end of the day, you are the one feeling it, you are the one living your life, not them. If their words can bring you down, you are not worth to be here in the first place. Every individual deserve to be respected in a certain level and if one bit can bring you down, the level of respect of people towards you go down as well. So, do not permit them into you, do not permit their bitter words into your brain, for, their purpose is to bring you down. Therefore, if they succeed bringing you down, who is the one feeling happy. Them and not you. Stay strong, stay firm. You are worth more than that on this earth.

We have to admit we have evil souls in this world, more than the good souls, so beware and just be happy, be truly happy from an inner state of mind, and not because of others. People like thse are not worth to be known, they can be thrown into the rubbish bin and the savage, for, throwing them there is an understatement all together.