Reality check

Remember that someone who ran away from work one day? Well, not literally, but in some ways. Gone in 24 hours.

Bobo knew where she is now, but he didn't wanna tell us. I am fine with it and I never bothered about it. If she was planning to run away and she was honest about it, I am totally alright with it. I might not be happy for sure, but at least tell us what is going on and so we know what to expect to the very least. If really, she treats people as friends, from a genuine heart, how could you betray people like that.

I did not wanna bother, I did not wanna concern anything about it later on until recently. Someone, and I meant someone, told me she saw her on a flight. Yeah of all airlines, it was Airasia. She still goes out with Bobo, and she still keeps in touch with few others, who were not close with her before, that seldom hang out with her. However, she never did that to us. Bobo said she is afraid that we will be angry. There is nothing left for us to get angry for all that act she had done, but it also depends the approach she uses. He also told me what if we decided to ignore her and do not pick up her calls. If she ever tried, I guess that's fair to say so but if she did not I feel she's not even in the position to say such things. Bobo told me why not we call her. No I will not, definitely not, I am not the one betraying in the first place you ... know.

Firstly, before she made the decision, she should have thought about all this coming, about the consequences that she will cause and weight everything before you decide. Endure every single thing that came from yourself. Since decision has been made, expect the worse from people. Maybe others are more transparent and compassionate, but I'm not simple as that. I trust that I am quite perplexing in some ways.

Instincts told me she will definitely regret whatever she had done that day, the day she walked out. Gotcha! She's now feeling kinda regretful too. I am not cursing her at all, but it's a reality. Even without Bobo telling, somehow from one way to another I will eventually know. The world is small, don't cha realize it. People do travel and they definitely remember. Even if you bumped into someone who was not there permanently, they will know about it. If you do things in a proper manner, there is nothing to regret of, people will not laugh at you when you fall, instead they will offer a helping hand. For what you have decided, your life might take a drastic change. For that, it's endurance time. Perhaps it's just trial and error in life.

Be genuine, be frank and be honest and people will not hate you for that. As I always say, don't regret for what you have decided, and for whatever things you have done. That is why, before doing so, THINK. That is what brains are all about. Rational, realistic, synthetic, reasonable, balanced is the way to live.