There are so many attention seeking people around. It is not surprisingly common these days and the number is growing. They just want people to give attention to them in their own ways, either by document every single little thing on a social media, or just saying stupid things.
Perhaps, all that is troubling them is the low self-esteem and confidence with lack of self-worth. If all of these are high, they most definitely don't need to act in such a way. Little did they know that those are just temporary relief and that's not even addressing the actual issue there.
I got to know someone who is like that. Of course, I know many more, but this is just one of the many. An example, I'm gonna shut myself out from the world, lock myself up and things like that. Perhaps, others will be understanding, tried to talk this person out of it. But, I couldn't even care less about what goes into the head of this person. Just let them say what they wanna say, because you know it's all about emotional rage. To me, if they actually do it is probably the best but I know they will not. Sadly.
Then, posting things like that, such a depressing day, I'm gonna get drunk tonight. Wow, that's very happening. Guess what? That's just what an attention seeker will say. I don't see any sane person say things as such. They want to be loved, they want to have the attention. With that kind of attitude and behavior, to me at least, I'm gonna ditch them and run as far as I can because eventually I will find them very irritating and that's bad for me. I need positive aura. Come to think about it, people with real depression issue don't go telling every other person or announce it to the world. That's when action speaks louder than words come into the picture.
We had our annual dinner end of November. The only event every employee is looking forward to because this is the only chance you get to win big prizes if you are lucky enough. There were performances from each department and stuff like that.
This is a very important factor - the food. Well, to be honest, the food was horrendous. It was tasteless and the transition of the food was too fast. We did not get to eat at our own pace. But, again, it's not like I ate. I ate one chicken, one fish, and some other small stuff. The rice was really bad and no, I don't enjoy one bit at all. A place like Grand Hyatt? It's just the name. I am not asking too much, and it's a fair expectation from a five star hotel.
Then, Steffy arrived. Haha. When the first few rounds of lucky draw was being called out. It means small stuff like vouchers.
Then, the group picture of us hehe.
Did you see a member of the Alley Cats? hahaa ... oh god~
The few of us again hehe
Oh only to realize that she was my senior back in college. OMG?
With fungiko haha
Ah I guess I was lucky enough to win this, Polaroid camera. One of the 2 lucky ones that won something bigger than a voucher. I must be really really lucky that day. My lucky stars during an annual dinner hehe.
After the dinner, it's us. Tiger, Mas and myself waiting for an after event plans. haha.
More and more unhappy people are expanding, and I have come to know about their existence. My close friends are usually single, and I have a few who have left our single club. Ah sad, right? Haha.
I know a few who had been out of the single club. We can see how wrong decision affect your life so much. We are able to see so many situations in which people we have cross path with caught with the wrong partner. I'm not referring to people whom have committed themselves with the partner, but those who had legally married. You can see for some, they are just the wrong fit. Others, you see that the other person is not even into them. What does it show? For a normal sensible person, you leave. Not all are sensible or rational enough. They become illogical when it is related to emotions. They go berserk. Only be with the people who wanna be with you, which makes it mutual, right? Excuses? Reasoning? It's pointless really, because if someone wants to be, it will be. It's whether he or she wants it. It's rather sad that people are willing to sacrifice whatever they have for that other person just because they just cannot be along. They become dependent to that other person for whatever reason there are.
When you get into a relationship, there are bound to have things change, for instance, your lifestyle, your habits and stuff like that. Change is common. But, you need to like what you have become with this person. If you are feeling all so stressed up, burden, and etc, it is a clear indication that it's time to bid farewell. Why suffocate yourself when you can be free as a bird. Why torture yourself being jealous when all these are not necessary in your life. All your energy are being wasted feeling that way, going through the days like that. Worth it? Also, if it's not making the best out of you from it, really, why are you even there? A lot of people sometimes have different perceptions, that doing certain things will make the other person unhappy. In the end of the day, it's you that you need to please. A very important question, look yourself in the mirror and ask if you are happy with the person you see in the mirror when you are with that particular person.
Woah! It has been raining every single day, and there's flood all around. It feels like London lately haha, the weather I meant not the flood.
That means, it's time to take out all my long sleeves that I previously cannot wear here as that will be too hot. It's not thick, but it's not that thin either. So, this is the perfect weather to wear.
Mehh~ haha. Can I have all cold weather everyday? I don't know how much I love Korean's sweater. hehe. I always buy one each time I travel there.
Sometimes, you wouldn't know a person until you get really close to them. They can put up with any kind of show in front, and to think that they are the person they portrayed themselves to be was indeed some kind of gimmick.
I know it's a crazy world out there but sometimes you just got into this situation off guard. The person who you thought was so open, understanding, awesome was just at a surface level. Then, you found out, everything was a lie. They made you believe as such.
Then, as days passed, you gradually found out what they really are, who they really are. The open, understanding, and awesome person was never ever there. The person is there out in the world elsewhere, definitely not the person you were interacting with all the while. I guess it's not about being fake in the beginning, it was all an act. It turned out to be disgusting, narrow minded and out of the mind.
I always believe that you get to know someone when they are angry and how can they compose themselves. When they can't, they let everything go, it's the time you get to read them. That is their true self. Never doubt that. I'm sorry I was this and that, I was angry. It's too late, yo! Those who always remain calm and cool, is when you know their EQ is at a certain level. haha.
Then, you saw this person doing this with others, the same old way, that act once again. It's all just a cycle. It suddenly felt disgusting. It never felt back then. When the truth is out, it always feel disgusting. Sometimes, you just don't know it's such a bad luck to be crossing path with people as such, or that you are lucky enough to meet with this kinda people that you get to learn how our human race really is. Either one, you choose. I think I rather choose that I am lucky. It's not all bad, we learn from mistakes, to learn to analyze people more. :D
Last 2 Sundays, we attended Lober's daughter's full moon dinner. Those who know me well enough know that I don't simply go to just anyone's full moon, or wedding dinner. I pick. This is the only one I have attended this year so far. Credits to SP
I have come to realize that many people are complaining about having back aches and all. They do it when it's convenient, to the point that I don't even know if I should believe them. Honestly, I don't. I highly doubt about it.
It's not so much about having back aches, but more like, it's their weight that has been influencing it. See, it's totally fine that you are on a heavier side and exercise. It's really not okay if you don't exercise, regardless of your weight. That person does not. Complaining about back pain every other time. People get bored with it.
You may be the thinnest person, but you can be the ones with the most percentage of body fats. So, don't question someone when you see a thin person working out. It's not about losing weight, it's about living a healthier life. You can be on a heavier side, and that does not mean that you are the unhealthiest of the lot. It's not always the case. There are so many factors, like the bone factor, the lifestyle and etc.
It's actually more dangerous for a thinner person to go binge eating because there are no changes on your body, you feel there is nothing to worry about. In fact, you should worry more because there's no changes despite you eating too much. Don't be too cocky just because you don't gain weight. You never know what's happening inside. It's them that take things for granted, you feel you can eat whatever you want because you don't gain weight? You're so wrong. It's the same, whether you're bigger or smaller, you need to watch what you eat.
I see a lady who eats McD every single day, and she's so damn freaking thin. That does not really mean that she has no weight issue. Who knows all the fats are hidden somewhere, that it does not interpret visually. It's really hazardous.
This year's Halloween has got to be the most unconventional way of celebrating. Seeing these pictures don't mean really that I love kids. My preference of kids around me remains, that I don't. It's not something I must hide or I need to. It's a well known fact I don't get along with them and it's for certain, I don't try to either.
The red and the black shirt boy is the siblings. They are Malaysian Japanese mixed.
Yeah, one and only adult group :(
with Sinsei this time and turned out blur
That's with Tomoko. Damn, she's leaving soon :(
Hahaa .... fine~
My prop of the night haha.... this Jap kid. Still, doesn't mean we get along. haha.
That's all for Halloween's, it was a really really laidback mini gathering we had. Nothing extravaganza or different. Well, this is different, it was a very peaceful and quiet evening, except with the noisy kids.
I had just finished a short video about cellulite. I know women had been battling with cellulite for decades now. There are so many stuff people had heard about cellulite and we do not know which is true and which is not. You see, most you have heard from are from those beauty centers, which their main concern is to get you to give them business. It just means that they want you to think that if you don't do anything about it, like some don't know God knows what kind of therapy, then you will forever and permanently diagnosed with cellulite.
We all know that there are all myths and there are no scientific proof of what these beauty centers claimed. According to the video, those cellulite is more of a muscle fiber issue, rather than skin or fats issue. Don't know how true but it's better to believe so.
Therefore, all the beauty centers, creams, gyms, and etc are not going to work. In fact, it makes the situation worse. Hence, what he suggested was to exercise because the affected area are lacking of stimulation. Only certain times of exercise. It's not carrying weights, doing some gymnastics stunts or things like that, but rather the basic exercise you can find on the net.
He drew it on the video itself a few exercise in which I have done it before in dance class. Just 3 times a week and 20 mins is sufficient.
A typical Libran who contradicts herself, and someone who is indecisive with a journey of uncertainty. Blessed with family and friends, and will always miss the place that had the best memory of the lifetime - Switzerland, the paradise, THE place that many could only dreamed of!
Der Schweiz, ich vermisse dich!The Swiss, I miss you!