Exercise

It is really important to stay healthy. Health is wealth. You may not realize this when you are much much younger, but when you get older, your body system works differently.

It is not only the obese people that should be aware off, in fact just anyone. It does not matter if you are obese, fat, thin, skinny. I feel the thin people should becareful. Just because you are thin does not really mean you are healthy. If you are someone that eat like an elephant yet don't get fat. Well, at least fatter people who eat and get fat, they tend to be more conscious of what they consume or that they know where the food goes to. The thin ones just gobble up and think that ah they are thin, they can eat anything. That's when problem starts.

I'm not talking about people who work to be thin, or fit. I'm saying those born as such. Live in a country with great food, without any good transportation available, we tend to get into the car and drive to the desired destination. We rarely walk. Even in the parking lot, we tend to find the one that is nearest to the entrance.

I've been searching for a good exercise. No, not running. I can't run. I have been dancing again after a year of hiatus, and that feels really good. But, that's not enough. I wanna go cycling now and I should continue swimming when my weekend day offs start. Apart from that, I have started my stretching regime at home. Haha.

Fast food is really bad for your calories. I was advised only once a month. Thank God, I don't really enjoy fast food anymore. haha.

Now You See Me

It was last Monday when we went to watch this movie since that we have watched Fast & Furious, and Man of Steel has not released here in the cinemas yet.

We do not know what was this movie about, we did not see the trailer, read the synopsis or anything like that. We bought the tix and walked in.

It's about a group of magicians who apparently robbed a bank for real and gave the money to the audience. That's all I can say and it's a rather cat and mouse race. The guy in the movie reminded me very much about The Social Network as Mark Zuckerberg. It turns out to be the same guy, Jesse Eisenberg due to the way he talked.Morgan Freeman is also there haha.

I love this quotes from the movie

"The closer you think you are, the less you'll actually see."
"The more you look, the less you see."
"First rule of magic: always be the smartest person in the room."

This is totally unexpected and it was an awesome movie. This is definitely recommended! 

한국: Day 5 Part 2

It was after the last post that it rained heavily after that. It was mad crazy. I do not wanna reiterate how heavy the rain was.

We didn't do much that day, except for shopping, buying stuff, walking and we finished up the day with a trip to Namsan Tower.

Anyway, this is a place for couples. People like us, go there just to take pictures haha.

These are the famous love locks. Variety shows came to film it too.

Ah I love you. 사랑합니다.

Look at the rain geez! To add on to that, the wind was also relatively strong.

These are the love lock trees. Pretty amazing. Look at the messages it's very Romeo & Juliet haha.

Tadaaa ... hahaa .. the message. So Shakespeare.

Be Kind

I have been reading and seeing so many of those relationship issues around. Betrayal, cheating, etc. Now, there's even a viral Facebook post too.

Well, really, why cheat? If you're not ready to commit, say so. If you no longer feel that way towards that person, be frank. Leave, and start another one. Not leave when you have been caught red handed. It's that simple. If you want both, then dream. Simple, right?

I believe that someone deserves a second chance. But, when you have been betrayed, I just don't think that person deserves it. It should be given to those who earns it, and of course you see that there's a change and that person regrets it. Otherwise, no.

If you think that everyone is the same, they allow you to do such immoral act, forgive you, give you another chance, I suggest you people to think again. What I'm saying does not refer to only one gender, it's actually both. Not everyone are kind like that to you. Some chose to be kind to themselves instead. That will be the best. Say no when you have to and that will benefit yourselves.

It may be kind to people, but you need to think of your own sake first. If it rips you up and eats you gradually, you'll die a kind person to them who in the end, do not appreciate it. It's better you die a mean person but a kind person to yourselves. You live happily and you die happily. Isn't it better?

Goodbye

End of last month, a colleague from my batch had resigned. It has been one and a half beautiful years working together. Now that she had left, I wish her the very best. As we are in 2 different teams for as long as we can even remember, we don't work together. Only during weekends, we do hang out and such during work hours. haha.

She was the first that left, and followed by another one, probably a week later. This was one of the last photos we had together. This is a partial team. Please don't bother about their facial expressions.

That's us, the complete us. Now, one left us. Til then, we shall cross path again at some point of our lives. :D

Intelligence

It surely cannot be denied that when a person is intelligent, they become attractive regardless of race, gender and age.

It shows from a conversation. People can tell too if you're just acting smart or you're really smart. You don't have to talk about science, medical or any of that sort to show but what comes from your mouth in a conversation is sufficient.

Crappy things that you say will not impress people. Not everyone has the intelligence and develop it. If all you ever have is crappy stuff in your head filled with lame lines, then you may find other things to be attractive such as being humorous.

Personally, I feel intelligence beats all and comes in second is being funny. That person automatically goes to a higher level when he or she is intelligent. You look at them differently. Of course, that includes not being narrow minded, that is related to intelligence too. :)

Music Unwind

Last Saturday, I attended this music recital in Centre Point whereby people got together to play music, to sing, and whatnot together. People from all age groups, all walks of life took the time to organize events as such, to perform for us.

Credits to those who has the guts to go up there to perform. Just appearing there deserve an applause.

When made that night so meaningful was that all the money was to be donated to the autistic children. There was a boy with autism performed with the piano. I just don't know what do you call that except for being a genius and gifted. Apparently, he can memorize the whole notes in minutes. He doesn't need to look at the notes when he plays. Throughout the whole performance, he was just looking at the crowd. He is one that deserves a standing ovation. It was a very moving scene. It's not just the normal song, but the speed that he's playing was absolutely splendid. No fault found. What's more, I even thought that it was a recording! That was how perfect it was.

These kids may be socially impaired, but they are no different from us. They breathe the same air, and all they ever need is to have the love and support from family and friends. It's very sad to see these special children with the situation they are in. Hold their hand and walk them through life.

You get what you deserve

I know that there wide selections of clothes selling out there in the malls compared to years back. As you have noticed and realized, girls are wearing lesser and lesser, shorter and shorter, thinner and thinner.

I believe that when you work, go to the office, it's only wise and professional to dress in certain way. That means not too short, not too thin, not too exposed like as if you are revealing your body to the public. If you are working in certain industries of course it is acceptable. But, if it's a corporate office, dressing up in that way does not portray you are a qualified employee. That's how usually people see you as. That also leads to self-respect. If you respect yourself, you do not wanna have remarks like "geez, look at that woman wearing so skimpy to work, that's an absolute disgrace." I'm sure no person in the right mind will want that. Don't be surprised if there are people who want that. Instead, they will interpret it as "Omg, so many people are looking at me, I'm a star." God, give us all a break.

There comes the guy. No, not them dressing like that. If they do, I rather not live anymore. You know which kind of guys deserve a respect? Not those who says "you look so beautiful" or that says "let's have a date." Not at all those kind. Instead, the deserving kind is those that when you see other girls dress in that offensive manner, you don't pass on remarks like "it's better not to wear" or "phewittt the bod is hawt" or "check out that chic." Instead, they keep quiet and decide not to say anything. That deserves a respect. He who does not bother about how a girl dresses and does not go crazy for her just because she's wearing shorter than most girls. He who knows what to say and what not to say. He who when in the company of girls, watch what he says. No sexist guys.

I know guys who are like that. "Phewitt" or "wah that skirt is so short" so what? You telling other girls that? You gotta be kidding me man. You should learn how to shut up for once. If you don't, get lost from my life and that does not affect me even one bit. First of all, imagine if some other guys on the street say that towards your own sister, or gf, or wife whichever that is applicable. Or better still, your own friends say that. Heh. Now, how that feels?

If you think you want to be respected like a rightful human being, then act as one. I am not asking you to act noble, posh, vogue or any of that sort, or even swag haha, but yeah, be respectful towards others. Human beings appreciate beautiful people. So, be beautiful inside. That also means, acting in a courteous manner deserve a respect, at least from this human being. We in general don't like rude people, right?

한국: Day 5 Part 1

Rain loved us, so so much. I don't know how much the rain loved us, it cannot be measured. It followed us from Jeju to Seoul.

Seoul is all about shopping. Of course, apart from that, we need to complete the sightseeing too to say that we have been to Seoul. The next stop we went was to Namsan Tower or you call it Seoul Tower if that's easier to remember haha. It's 10 minutes walk from Myeongdong (the shopping destination) to the cable car station. It's a very good exercise as it's all uphill and the best part of all, you have no other choice but to walk as cars and taxis are prohibited there.

The best to visit is actually not day time, instead, the best is after sunset, between 7 PM to 12 AM. You can take the cable car up and walk down though. There are quite a few stuff up there, such as the revolving restaurant, souvenir shop, and a few more restaurants and the observatory.

As you can see from this picture itself, it was raining before we arrived. Having said that, it does not mean that it had stopped for that day.

Ahhh cherry blossom. We missed the cherry blossom in Jeju as the season is almost over there. At least, we still have our hopes here in Seoul. Hehe.

This is it. Namsan Tower or Seoul Tower.

They made this into a shape of a heart. Very pretty looking.

Ahh so cute this yellow thing haha

The Social Network Site

Few months back, I have joined a social network recommended by one of my dear friend. It's a site you don't have to pay as most sites I know is only free for certain usage and most of the features needs at least a certain membership fee.

It's very very similar to Facebook with the exception that this cannot be locked or restricted. Therefore, whatever you post up, whether pictures, rants, or status can be seen by the public.

I saw this status posted by this girl who said she wants a tall bf who smokes, tanned, will do anything for her and etc. It's very fairy tale liked, right? Posting status like that only attract weirdos. 2 minutes later, she posted another status stating that all guys there are jerks.

Personally, I think she was just asking for it as hello ... you don't go posting stuff like that up for the public to see. Doesn't she know common etiquette? I guess not.

This is like encouraging weirdos and she's attracting that kind of people to her as the whole aura in her is telling people that she's desperate. What kind of people do desperate people attract? Humans are attracted more towards the same kind, so the answer, despo too. Opposite attract doesn't work, the ratio is higher for the same kind to get along.

Girls dying to get bfs there, I just can't say how disgusted I am towards the pictures that they post. It's pictures you don't wanna see, it's pictures you feel embarrass of if you know that person. Thank God none of my friends behave that way. If one of them are like that, I strongly believe they will be kicked out from my circle long ago. Maybe, perverts get excited over it.

Guys who want gf wouldn't choose them as their gfs too. I believe they wouldn't want their gfs to be showing and expressing themselves through pictures like that. Furthermore, don't think ever anyone will be that open minded to be allowing such thing to happen. The entire thing about them is just so immoral and can be very offensive to certain people. It shows how low can they be. Obviously, only perverts and weirdos want you.

If you want someone with not with that kind of standard, it's not about choosing another guy. It's all about changing how you think and act. If you don't, you will attract that same type of guys to you. It may be a different person, but they will be the same type of people.